Mar 6, Can You Imagine a Truly Romantic Love Relationship?

If you can just imagine your dream love relationship, then you are well on your way to creating it. Here’s a romantic idea that you can do by yourself or romantic couples can do the exercise together. It’s a lot of fun as a couple; AND you are likely to gain valuable insight into your partner’s preferences. The more you learn about what they love, the better you are equipped to romance their socks off, so pay attention!

Whether you take turns with your partner, do it simultaneously as a loving couple or imagine alone, your love relationship will certainly benefit from this easy exercise.

Find a comfortable place to sit. Relax, close your eyes and picture a wonderful romantic scene, like you are watching a movie in your mind. It can be a real place that you know or somewhere that you make up. First imagine the setting. Is the sun shining brightly or can you see the twinkling stars and moon rising in the night sky? Do you feel a warm tropical breeze or is that the whisper of satin sheets against your skin? Do you hear the sweet sound of a mourning dove or perhaps the throbbing beat of nightclub music? Do you smell yellow roses or rain on dry pavement or sultry perfume? Where are you? On a beach? In a castle? At a fancy hotel? Sailing in a hot air balloon?

Focus on all of the delicious sensations you encounter. Study the sights and listen to the sounds, inhale the scents, notice the colors and the tastes.

Now notice your beloved there with you. What are they wearing (or not!)? Gaze deeply into their eyes. Inhale their scent and feel their touch. What are they doing? What do they say to you? Receive a special gift from them. What is it?

When you have taken it all in and fleshed it all out thoroughly in your mind, then pay attention to how you are feeling. Happy? Relaxed? Breathless? Exhilarated? Giggly? All of the above? Now go to that feeling place and make yourself feel it just a bit MORE. Escalate your emotions up a notch. Now, drink it in! Feel the emotions wash over you...

When you are ready, take a deep breath and open your eyes. Share with your partner or record your vision in your journal.

I like to collect such yummy scenes and visit them often.

By practicing the feelings of these fantasies, we are preparing ourselves to experience them. We are inexorably drawn to what is familiar, so why not start getting familiar with what you love?

Creating these pictures with your beloved is a great way to share your best romantic ideas together as a couple . These are connections that will serve most loving couples very well as they plant the seeds of romance together with an eye toward their blissful future.